Also, do note I am NOT trying to do the type of "rescue" Anna does. I'm trying to encourage Sol to step up and do what's right. To do this herself. I COULD do the type of "rescue" Anna thinks she does. But I don't. I just want her to stand on her own power, to look at what Anna has done to Cakes, me, and herself, and say "fuck this shit. She has no obligations here and I have no obligations to her. My happiness comes first, not making sure this leech has a place to live."

Sol, the power to end this bullshit is with you. You have all the power in the world to make you life better. If you must rest, I and others will shelter you. If you must bitch, I and others will listen and try to help. But I cannot make you take that power and move forward. Stand tall. It will hurt, but if you want to see what can happen, look at me and what happened to me. Look at the depressed wreck I ended up fretting myself into because of money issues and trying to pay bills and being reimbursed by someone who should have paid half of it. Look at the person I became, the little huddling mess that scared her cat by crying hard in the bathroom when she felt like she was out of options financially because Anna suddenly told her over the phone she wasn't coming back. Don't become that. Don't let her push you into that corner like she pushed me there. I'm encouraging you to be more than I could.

Please, Sol.