| Something I noticed |
[May. 3rd, 2009|06:33 pm] |
Sol had always had emotional problems. She had always been prone to depression and outbursts.
She's become more depressed since Anna moved in.
She's always had problems with the people she's lived with.
They've become worse since Anna moved in.
I just want to know, Sol. Tell me, does Anna actually clean the cat box(es)? Is she keeping her room clean? Does she feed her cat? Does she do her dishes? This isn't an opportunity for you to sit here and rail on me, just answer the questions. Also, does she still have the same phone? Is she able to make payments on whatever she needs to make payments on? Does she still have insurance?
Don't sit there and dance around the questions. Answer them. Tell me if she's cleaned the cat box(es). Tell me if she's kept her room clean. She didn't when she lived in Austin. Note I didn't say when she lived with me. I saw that room when she lived with Cakes. And I saw it after she moved out. Sure, still dirty, but it wasn't that utter and complete critter loving FILTH I saw when moving her out. And by the way, my mom worked for a company that made chemicals for various lawn and garden uses. Some of the uses were critter related. What Anna said was bullshit. Critters will come in because the temperature in here is more to their liking, but they will STAY because of the food we give them. We used to have ants in this house. Guess how we got rid of them before Mom worked for Green Light. I'll give you a hint - it wasn't chemically related. Oh, and yeah, when she first moved her laptop upstairs and I used the desk for a while, there were ants all over it. Guess how they stopped showing up. Yep, no more half used Coke cans laying there for the ants to crawl into. I would drink all of mine and throw them away.
Has she actually paid her $1000+ tickets? Or is she still whining that they never got a hold of her so she doesn't have to pay? Every else, stop laughing. Oh, and did Marble Falls ever call her out on the fact she gave an expired insurance to them to bring her ticket down?
But, you know what really gets me? She claims she wants to "rescue" people and then puts them through more hell than if they had stayed where they were. She wanted to "rescue" Cakes and it seemed to me Cakes actually did better once she wasn't living with Anna. She moved in with me because she wanted to "rescue" me (oh, and because Cakes was really annoying her and she didn't want to live there and she couldn't WAIT to move out and can't it be now?) and then ended up putting me through so much hell that I was a sobbing wreck at the end. She wanted to "rescue" Sol and Sol has gotten so bad that it's frightening. I had never seen Sol so depressed to the point it reminded me of when I was considering killing myself.
By the way, if someone says that you didn't seem approachable, and works herself into a mess because she feels like she's being taken advantage of but she can't tell you, YOU MIGHT WANT TO PAY ATTENTION TO THAT. It's a little more than neurosis, because usually that kind of thing is rooted in personal experience with the person. Considering though that you were exhibiting more passive-aggressive behavior than I could ever even hope to see again (leaving me notes instead of talking when we were in the same house, telling me that if I wanted to talk to you WHILE WE WERE IN THE SAME APARTMENT that I should IM you instead of talking face to face, "forgetting" and "losing" stuff, fear of dependancy and intimacy, making chaotic situations, making excuses, acting like the victim when all this came down, always being FUCKING LATE), I find it funny that you called my fear and shyness passive-aggression. Anyone else here ever realize that the more you talk, the more they take your words and twist them to look like the bad guy, so you stop talking and start feeling awful the more and more stuff happens that you can't talk about because of past experience with twisted words? That was me living with Anna.
I really do think the best thing Sol can do is to grab Anna, shove her outside, and tell her never to come back. She'll feel better, the house will be MUCH cleaner (a self proclaimed OCD cleaner, and she leaves half full Coke cans littered everywhere, she puts food-caked plates into the dishwasher, her room is a mess where she leaves cat shit, she doesn't clean out cat boxes at all...), and they won't have to spend money on her when she mysteriously doesn't have money for X when two days later, before she gets paid, she has more than enough for Y.
(By the way, Sol? If you want to really help with the bugs, keep everything really clean. The cleaner I kept things in my Aunt's house and in the apartment, the less I saw critters. When I finally took complete control of the litter boxes in the apartment, the flies and bugs stopped coming. When Anna moved out and stopped leaving crap everywhere, I didn't see ants. And I wasn't spraying any chemicals, nor did I go to the leasing office to get someone in. You will get some bugs out of curiosity, but if you don't leave anything for them to eat, you won't see many of them. I speak as someone whose mother worked for a chemical company and brought these tips home from the scientists and factory workers. And the whole "she's lying and hiding something" is from someone whose father worked in loss prevention and realized that when I finally confronted her about possibly stealing from me, she never answered my questions.) |
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